Table of Contents: “…Offer her other outlets and opportunities -- Give her a dose of emotion lotion to soothe and support -- Give her a tool kit of options -- Strategies 11 and 12 : change the culture. Mothers and others, taking action -- A rally for Ophelia -- Cheryl's camp : it's not like any other -- Dads and dealing with RA -- A club of her own : groups that make a difference -- Develop your own action plan to make a difference.…”